What happens to the people in life who constantly "miss the boat"? I wish I was "asking for a friend" but sadly I am not. I am asking for myself. I often wonder what happens to people like me who just do not have the luck or hit the milestones in life. Here I am almost 40 with what to show for it? Most days I can't believe that I am an adult. It sounds strange but I am the "Grown up" now. When did this happen? It doesn't feel real. I think growing up the "adult life" meant being married and having children. I have none of those with pretty much no hope of ever having those things. People I know for years have been married for years now with more than one child. That is wild to me. It seemed like yesterday that we were young thinking about how many kids we would want to have and what our future husband would look like. When I was younger, I always used to have this reoccurring dream which now kind of seems like a nightmare. In the drea...